Txoj Kev Mus Ua Nyab

Kuv niam yug tau kuv los, kuv tsis yog hnav lub rhis, kuv hnav ib daim tiab. Thaum kuv tseem noj kuv niam lub  mis, ntshe kuv niam twb paub tias muaj ib hnub twg, kuv loj puv nkauj, cas kuv yuav yas ntawv kuv niam lub xub ntiag mus ua ib xeem tshiab. Ntshe kuv niam twb los los kua muag ntsiag to hauv siab thaum kuv pib nyiam Hmoob ces muaj ib hnub twg, kuv niam yuav tau los saib kuv ncaim nws lub siab mus.
            Hnub kuv mus ua Nyab, yog hnub uas tu siab tshaj plaws. Kuv tuaj txog es kuv tej me nus, me viv ncaus tuaj quaj kua muag poob dawb vog tias cas yus ua viv ncaus nus muag ib zaug es, kuv yuav sawv kev ncaim sawv daws mus pib ib lub neej nrog ib xeem. Kuv yuav mus muab luag hu uas niam uas txiv, es yuav tso tus nqa kuv hauv plab tseg tiag tiag. Kuv tsua yog qiv kuv niam lub plab los yug xwb, kuv yuav mus laus nrog ib tug tshiab.
            Los lus ua tu siab tshaj plaws ces yog los uas luag hais tias, “Hnub no, koj tsis yog peb neeg lawm mog. Ciaj los koj yog lawv neeg, tuag ces koj yog lawv dab.” Muab xav mas zoo li cuag li luag muab yus kem khiag ntawv cov tub. Vim kuv cov nus yog tub, ces kuv cov nus thiaj li hlub tau kuv niam thiab kuv txiv xwb. Kuv yog ib leej ntxhais, ces kuv yuav tau los mus hlub kuv niam pog txiv yawg.
            Txoj kev mus ua Nyab, yog ib txoj kev uas nyob ntsiag to tsis muaj neeg paub txog yus txoj kev chim, txoj kev tu siab, thiab kua muag. Koj noj ib diav mov, koj nqos lawm pes tsawg lub kua muag iab. Ua ib tug Nyab, yus yog tus yuav tau ua siab ntev siab dav tshaj. Yam sib, yam hnyav los yus rhis tag nrho. Koj yuav mus rhis koj tus txiv lub npe kom muaj koob muaj npe, kom koj lub cuab yig txawj loj hlob. Yog koj ua tau, ces koj yog ib tug Nyab muaj peev xwm. Yog tias koj ua tsis tau, ces luag yuav hais tias koj yog ib tug Nyab tsis muaj nqis.
            Tsis hais leej twg, ib tug poj niam mus ua Nyab tau peb caug xyoo los ib tug poj niam mus ua Nyab tau ob xyoo, nws yuav nco nco nws niam thiab nws txiv mus txog hnub tuag. Nws yuav nco nco li ib tug neeg quav yeeb. Qhov chaw nco ntawv yuav maj mas ploj mus kom tsis txhob mob mob, tab si, tsis muaj hnub yuav zoo hlov mus es tsis hnov mob lawm. Hauv koj lub siab, yeej khoob ib lub qhov uas tsis muaj neeg paub.
            Kuv niam thiab kuv txiv, vim neb yug kuv los ua neb ib tug ntxhais hnav tiab. Kuv thiaj li tau tsum dhau nej lub tsev mus ua neej lawm. Kuv mus ua neej, kuv mus nco ntsoov neb tej lus qhia hnub kuv tuaj ua tshoob. Kuv mus ua neej, kuv nqa neb ob lub me ntsej muag nrog kuv mus nyob hauv kuv siab. Kuv mus ua neej, kuv mus rau rau siab kom neb muaj koob muaj npe tias neb yug tau ib tug ntxhais uas txawj mus ua  neej vim neb ua niam ua txiv txawj qhuab qhia. Ua neb tsuag nta ntau  mog kuv niam thiab kuv txiv.

Comments

  1. AnonymousMarch 20, 2014 at 6:31 AM

    Thank you for posting this. I have been stressed out as a nyab and this really helped me cope with the thought that I'm not alone.

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  2. By Houa LorMarch 25, 2014 at 10:55 AM

    Dear Anonymous,

    First of all, thank you for stopping by to read. I myself am a Nyab of 17 years. Life as a Nyab will always be something you never expect. But every single Nyab in this world is floating in the same boat when it comes to stress, hardships, and relationship. You may think you're alone, but you're not. Best wishes to you.

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  3. AnonymousMarch 3, 2016 at 8:43 PM

    Lub neej mus ua nyab yog ib qhov Ua tu siab tshaj plaw. Kuv mam khaws Koj tej lus qhia kom zoo. Luag yuav ntxub, yuav cem, yuav hais, yuav khwv lub siab phem rau yus los mam nco ntsoov kom rub yus lub siab kom ntev.

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    1. By Houa LorMarch 31, 2016 at 5:18 PM

      Ua tsaug rau koj lus zoo. Tej lus sau cia no pab muab cia ua kev kawm rau peb sawv daws.

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  4. AnonymousMarch 31, 2016 at 5:10 PM

    Kuv niam hais rau kuv "yuav mus ua nyab, thov kom cia tus tub tuaj hais ntawm koj txiv wb ob lub xub ntiag, kom wb pom tau tias wb tus vauv no yeej hlub koj tiag es nws thiaj li muaj peev xwm tuaj tshwm ntsej tshwm muag tuaj tuav koj tes coj mus ua pom niam. Lwm hnub neb muaj teebmeem, nws thiaj li cem tsis tau koj mob. Yog tias nws tsis kam, es cia li tuaj coj koj mus ntsiag to lawm xwb, ces thaum neb hais lus tsis sib haum nws yuav hais tias twb tsis yog nws xav xav yuav koj, koj tshaw nws, koj thiaj li raws nws qab los tsev, nws thiab li tau yuav lawm xwb.".. thaum tseem hluas xav tias wb twb sib hlub npaum no yeej tsis ua li cas. Ziag no hnov luag cem kiag rau yus lawm ces..mam xav txog lig... Mus ua nyab xav kom zoo thiab mloog yus niam thiab txiv lus ua ntej mam dhais ruam mus ua luag tsev neeg.

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    1. By Houa LorMarch 31, 2016 at 5:20 PM

      Ua tsaug uas koj tseem pab txhawb kuv tej lus sau thiab mog. Niam Txiv hais los vim yeeb vim luag xav kom yus tau lub neej zoo xwb mog. Txawv tias lub neej mus tsis raws li lub siab xav los, nco ntsoov tias ntiaj teb yeej tsis kawg. Tsis yog yus ib leeg xwb mog. Sawv daws yeej muaj ib qhov kev khuv xim, kev tu siab. Thov kom ntuj foom koob hmoo rau koj xwb mog.

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  5. AnonymousApril 4, 2016 at 12:13 AM

    I hope that some day we will develop a collaboration for all married wives to have a open conversation about lub neej mus ua nyab. That way, the Hmong women can become closer and give great advises to each other and to those who are planning to get married one day. This is something I would like to happend. This kind of problem where and feel gs shouldn't be repressed but it needs to be in the open to the community to make major changes so maybe hmong wedding wouldn't be such a sad thing but a happy thing. I wouldn't cry and be sad during my wedding but be so happy and see my family happy for me. I understand leaving your family to be with your husbands family Will always be a sad event, but there's needs to be another to do things where the bride shouldn't take on all the burdens. Just my point of views but what a inspiring story you have there. :)

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    1. By Houa LorApril 5, 2016 at 2:01 PM

      Hello! Thank you for stopping by to read. If we start a new tradition, our daughters won't look at marriage as a way to be banned from their family. It really is up to us to help them see that marriage is a start of a happy life, not the beginning of something sad.

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  6. AnonymousApril 4, 2016 at 12:13 AM

    I hope that some day we will develop a collaboration for all married wives to have a open conversation about lub neej mus ua nyab. That way, the Hmong women can become closer and give great advises to each other and to those who are planning to get married one day. This is something I would like to happend. This kind of problem where and feel gs shouldn't be repressed but it needs to be in the open to the community to make major changes so maybe hmong wedding wouldn't be such a sad thing but a happy thing. I wouldn't cry and be sad during my wedding but be so happy and see my family happy for me. I understand leaving your family to be with your husbands family Will always be a sad event, but there's needs to be another to do things where the bride shouldn't take on all the burdens. Just my point of views but what a inspiring story you have there. :)

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    Finally someone said it.. ������������

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    Finally someone said it.. ������������

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  9. UnknownApril 5, 2016 at 11:17 AM

    You ladies are lucky to have loving mothers. Be grateful to them and visit your mother often.

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    1. By Houa LorApril 5, 2016 at 2:01 PM

      Thank you for stopping by to read. A mother can have a thousand daughters. But a thousand daughters can only have one mother.

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  10. AnonymousApril 6, 2016 at 8:08 AM

    I'm sure we all have heard the term "ua nyab thiaj paub tab" this is exactly what our mothers has been trying to get through. Just wish that we as a younger generation will be anle to make this change for our nyab's.

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    1. By Houa LorJuly 22, 2016 at 10:06 AM

      Thank you for stopping by to read. It is the truth. And in order to know what our mothers have been trying to teach us, we sometimes have to be in the role ourselves.

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  11. UnknownJuly 22, 2016 at 8:42 AM

    Its not easy to go ua nyab hmoob because you don't know to expect and the ideas that your husband side going like or dislike you. Even thou, things are good but their still unevens side or other issues with it. I can tell by just looking at or feeling the touchs of it. Ua nyab is easy for some people and for others it's hard so just a reminder that you can't define the things going to happen to you or others. Future, lessons here to just try your best and stay on foot as much as possible. If that doesn't work than just keep trying until that realize that you the one and only one for them. At the end things change or no change. In life just bear each and life will be successful for you. To all the wonderful people or ladies that are going to take part in life just be clam and be more specific to you and others around you. Enjoy being nyab. I know I won't be because I probably hate in being a position where I have to learn.

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    1. By Houa LorJuly 22, 2016 at 10:06 AM

      Thank you for stopping by to read. Being in the position as a Nyab isn't built for everyone. And I appreciate your comment and best of luck to you.

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    i would like to read it... but i cant completely read in hmong >.<

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